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It鈥檚 important that teachers understand the dynamic of varying family structures before deciding how to approach a situation with parents. Family structures are markedly different than they were even a decade ago. In this economy, parents may be working two jobs or vigilantly looking for jobs; they may be going to school and work; they may be single parents or raising their children with help from other family members.
Research proves that family engagement leads to student achievement. So to be effective, teachers must be prepared to collaborate with all families and family structures to support student success. Here鈥檚 how.

Communicate in more ways than one. Draw upon the knowledge and strengths of individual families to communicate in a relevant way. For example, find out the best way to contact the parent. Millennial parents respond better and more quickly to email and text messages, not to letters sent home or phone calls.

Develop trust. It may sound redundant but constant communication is the key to building that trust. If you tell the parent that you鈥檒l reach out to them, make sure to follow through and reach out when you say you will. Parents will react negatively if you say you鈥檙e going to call, text or email and you do not.

Focus on the child鈥檚 education. Again, all families are different and will react differently to feedback about their child. Remember that the child鈥檚 education should always be the priority. So, keep conversations focused on the child鈥檚 academic progress and not on anything else.

Invite a third party. Sometimes a conversation between two people may benefit from a different perspective, so invite another teacher to a parent-teacher conference or a scheduled meeting with the parent. Allow the teacher to add to your or the parent鈥檚 perspective. Also, don鈥檛 be afraid to ask the parent to bring his or her spouse, another care-giving adult or someone with pertinent information or insight.

Continue communication. Routinely keep in touch with the parent, even if things are going well. It can play an important role in helping maintain that trust and help the child continue to do better in school.

Finally, make sure to express appreciation as progress is made. A good way to promote a continuing relationship with the parent is to say 鈥渢hank-you鈥� with their preferred way of communication. The most important thing to remember in building this relationship is that you share something important in common -you both want the very best for your student and their child.

It isn鈥檛 hard to imagine how a family would benefit by a teacher visiting their home: both students and parents become more engaged, and the data shows us that students perform better. But how do home visits impact teachers? Does it make their job harder, or easier? Does their teaching change as a result?

Here鈥檚 what teachers say they get out of it.

Tarik McFall, a middle grade teacher in Sacramento, advises:
鈥淚 would tell all teachers who want to create powerful relationships with both students and students鈥� families to do home visits on a regular basis. Rewards include better teacher/parent communication, improved student behavior, and a stronger sense of community both inside and outside of the classroom.鈥�

Better communications

Across the board, teachers find the training and practice of home visits improves their own communications skills. Elementary School Teacher Lisa Levasseur recently commented,

鈥淗ome visits made me a better communicator: doing home visits helped me to understand what was truly important to the family. Communication with my families became easier and expectations on both sides were easier to get accomplished.鈥�

Differentiating the curriculum

Teachers say that what they鈥檝e learned about the student outside of school has been invaluable in teaching to the student inside the classroom.

As Jennifer Garcia, a teacher at Jedediah Smith Elementary School explains: 鈥淏uilding a relationship outside of the school setting, going into the home and getting to know the culture of the family as a whole helps me make the classroom relevant to that student.鈥�

Effective outreach

Another core belief of our program is that visits are done with a wide range of students, not just the ones who are identified as having problems. Rather, visits are a time for the teacher and the family to reflect on their shared goal: their hopes and dreams for the child.

John Castro, Sacramento Teacher of the Year in 2010-2011 adds:

鈥淚 would recommend that teachers do as many home visits as possible early on in the school year or even before the school year starts. Once that parent teacher relationship is established, it really helps everything else after that and makes the year go by more smoothly.鈥�

Improved student behavior

We hear it all the time: not only do students behave better when they know their teacher is in touch with their parents, but their responsiveness increases when the teacher connects with the student at home. Tu Moua-Carroz, a Principal in Roseville, CA, remembers the impact of a home visit when she was a child:

鈥淭hat one home visit by Mrs. Spolsdoff changed my perception of school. She came to my house You better believe I NEVER wanted to disappoint her after that visit.鈥�

Cultural competency

Meeting the needs of a diverse population of families means that teachers who visit learn to communicate well with people from different backgrounds than their own.

鈥淭eachers gain cultural competency through participating in active listening with families and getting to know them,鈥� says Yun-Chi Maggie Hsu, a teacher at Wakefield High School in Arlington, Virginia, 鈥渁nd teachers are given opportunities to confront own (hidden) biases.鈥�

Shared goals, shared responsibility

Once teachers and families share common goals, families are more likely to trust and support the teacher, says Garcia. 鈥淚t really helps for the family to get to know me, as an educator.鈥�

This shared vision for the child鈥檚 success leads to shared responsibility for the child鈥檚 education. And that, teachers say, can take a load off across all grade levels. Debbie Polhemus, a teacher at Wakefield High School in Arlington Virginia explains:

鈥淭he greatest advantage that the home visit makes to a classroom teacher, at least those of us at the secondary level, is that the parent goes from being an unknown to an ally in a very short time. Not all problems can be solved, even with allies, but it is so empowering to have a partner in the effort.鈥�

Nick Faber, a teacher in St. Paul Minnesota, for example, encourages colleagues to think about home visits as an opportunity to build teams among staff and provide a pathway to become more connected to the greater school community. Veteran Sacramento teacher Nancy Fong sums it up this way:

鈥淎s a public educator today, the stress to succeed with measureable results for all children comes from families, principals, district, state and federal agencies; but even more, you as a teacher put pressure on yourself. A responsibility is given once you become a class teacher. That stress and responsibility is shared with the partnership I have established with the family through home visits. It鈥檚 still a joy riding into school everyday and I owe much of this to home visits!!!!