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School Shooting Survivors at Odds With District Over Graduation Cords

By Jennifer Chambers, The Detroit News 鈥 May 16, 2023 4 min read
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Orange is the color of the gun violence prevention movement鈥攁nd it鈥檚 the color of a special commencement cord a group of 2023 Oxford High School graduates plans to wear to symbolize they are survivors of gun violence as they cross the stage and obtain their diploma this week.

Oxford school officials are not having it. The district, where a school shooting in 2021 killed four students and injured seven others, first asked the seniors not to divert from the traditions of commencement. Then, the district offered a 鈥渟pecially designed navy and gold Wildcat honor cord to its graduation wear.鈥

The battle between the kids and school leaders has been brewing for weeks, with graduation looming Thursday.

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Olivia Curtis, a graduating senior and close friend of the St. Juliana family, whose daughter Hana, 14, was killed in the school shooting on Nov. 30, 2021, said the orange cord is important to her for two reasons.

鈥淔irst, it honors Hana. And second, since commencement is supposed to be about the things that you鈥檝e accomplished, wearing the orange cord to represent surviving a school shooting just feels right. It鈥檚 part of who we are,鈥 Curtis said.

The students have the support of several parents, including Marisa Prince, who ordered 200 orange cords from the nonprofit Everytown for Gun Safety and is handing them out for free to the students.

鈥淲e as adults we put them in this position where they have no choice to become activists on this issue because of what they lived through,鈥 Prince said. 鈥淪ome students have chosen to champion the issue of mass shootings and gun violence because of what they have experienced and they want to prevent this from happening again, due to adults failing to protect them.鈥

Others, like 2017 OHS graduate Olivia Upham, whose brother Keegan survived the attack and is set to graduate on Thursday, emailed the school board telling them high school graduations in Oxford are simply not like those before 2021.

鈥淭here is no reversal. However, it is not too late to honor, respect, and bear witness to those who will walk across that stage,鈥 Upham wrote in her email. 鈥淧lease, allow these children to be seen, to honor their own journeys in the way THEY see fit, and encourage them to wear the orange cords if they so requested them. To compare this to a political agenda is ludicrous, laughable, and shameful.鈥

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The 2022 Oxford High School graduating class honored their fallen classmates in different ways, with signs, photographs and in speeches. Two seats were left empty for the 17-year-old seniors who were among those slain in the attack: Madisyn Baldwin and Justin Shilling. Their families were presented the teens鈥 robes and school honors in large frames.

Oxford superintendent Vickie L. Markavitch said on Monday keeping the focus on students and their accomplishments was behind her decision and that special recognition was being given to the graduating classes with the new honor cord in school colors of navy and gold.

鈥淭he reason I am not approving or endorsing the orange cord that is being distributed by an outside organization is because the tradition of Oxford High School鈥檚 Graduation has been to keep the focus solely on students and their accomplishments,鈥 Markavitch said. 鈥淢y endorsement of other symbolic graduation wear would set a precedent that could erode that tradition and more importantly the focus on students and their accomplishments.鈥

鈥 Wearing the orange cord to represent surviving a school shooting just feels right. It鈥檚 part of who we are.

Some graduating seniors initiated a tribute to OHS students Tate Myre, a junior who died in the school attack and was expected to graduate in 2023, and Daphne Beethem, a senior who died in a car accident on April 13. At graduation rehearsal on Tuesday, seniors will have the opportunity to accept a tassel charm with pictures of both students that they may attach to their graduation cap, school officials said.

On May 9, the district sent a message to families about students who want to wear a symbol 鈥渁cknowledging the incomparable challenges they have had to face in their journey to achieve their high school diploma.鈥

Markavitch announced the district added a specially designed navy and gold honor cord to its graduation wear.

鈥淭he Wildcat honor cord will symbolize the resilience and strength these students have had to find within themselves, forging ahead to complete their graduation requirements while healing from the trauma and after-effects of the November 30, 2021 tragedy,鈥 the email said.

Those cords will be handed out to seniors at graduation rehearsal.

Oxford parent Chalmers Fitzpatrick said she was angry with the district over their position on the cord.

鈥淭hese free tassels represent surviving a mass shooting and it takes maturity and courage to acknowledge being a survivor. You cannot pretend it didn鈥檛 happen by refusing to let kids, teachers, staff, substitutes, etc. wear orange,鈥 Fitzpatrick wrote in her email to the board. 鈥淚n fact, the school should hand these out along with the program to all attendees who wish to wear orange and support our children. I believe the statement by the school was that wearing Orange is political? There is NOTHING political about being shot at while in school!鈥

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